tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post8944344156783293302..comments2023-10-03T09:22:28.312-07:00Comments on two L's please: We Get To Carry Each Other Carry Each Other OneHillaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10602816507915795709noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-58008290477967432672011-09-03T12:37:39.633-07:002011-09-03T12:37:39.633-07:00i can't even imagine how life-altering an even...i can't even imagine how life-altering an event this must be...! but i do know you're an awesome lady, so i'm confident it won't be long until you get comfortable being an awesome lady with a kid :)Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15287792370490363047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-51020968942432599152011-09-01T19:02:05.643-07:002011-09-01T19:02:05.643-07:00I fought so hard to not lose my old self and now, ...I fought so hard to not lose my old self and now, 2 years later, I've accepted and embraced my new with-child self. It takes a while...having a kid is such a big life change. What a cutie!sassafrashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03452519826561552924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-16738098126700032482011-09-01T00:58:22.815-07:002011-09-01T00:58:22.815-07:00Congratulations! He is beautiful.Congratulations! He is beautiful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-15613320966563227002011-08-31T12:38:00.390-07:002011-08-31T12:38:00.390-07:00I just want to encourage you that you are not the ...I just want to encourage you that you are not the only one to have felt this way. Your entire world and priorities have shifted! Not to mention your day to day is, uh, not like it was before.<br /><br />I called my transition to motherhood an "identity crisis", and I felt like I was literally fighting to be Kathryn, too, and not just Mommy. Reading current event mags whenever I had even a few minutes helped me relate to the outside world. Two kids later, I am more Me and a happier, more full Me than before I had kids. <br /><br />While you may have to do some work re-define yourself, it is so worth it.Kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04552404563887576035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-47655692174406192292011-08-30T15:22:44.907-07:002011-08-30T15:22:44.907-07:00seriously, just so precious. so much love.seriously, just so precious. so much love.Katelinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15994241556437259884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-55367604545247630892011-08-30T11:46:09.550-07:002011-08-30T11:46:09.550-07:00Everything gets easier with time. Emotions level, ...Everything gets easier with time. Emotions level, routines begin and the bond you have will continue to grow. My biggest advice is to never be afraid to ask for help. I pretended to be superwoman after my first was born and tried to do it all myself, big mistake. It's amazing what just 30 minutes by yourself can do to rejuvenate and improve your outlook.<br /><br />He's absolutely adorable!Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12026200070996351097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-73679100310230487922011-08-30T11:21:53.965-07:002011-08-30T11:21:53.965-07:00I think we all change when we become parents, some...I think we all change when we become parents, sometimes in the most unexpected ways. I never lived a reckless life, but now that I'm a mama, I question everything I do and whether it's worth the risk now that I'm a mama. You definitely think differently. But, have faith in yourself, in Shawn, in your families and friends ... Grady is going to grow up being surrounded by an amazing community.Nilsa @ SoMi Speakshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08474642034399063234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-1727485358610873072011-08-30T02:30:35.344-07:002011-08-30T02:30:35.344-07:00you put in to words what I have been trying to pin...you put in to words what I have been trying to pinpoint since Asher was born 12 weeks ago.<br />Thank you, I now know that I need to make the effort to define myself again, somehow.<br />Much love, you're doing a great job, Grady is absolutely edible.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-256970415219535792011-08-29T16:10:29.030-07:002011-08-29T16:10:29.030-07:00He is perfect. And your feelings are perfectly nor...He is perfect. And your feelings are perfectly normal... at least as I understand things. I'm not a mom yet.doahleighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08963505135106159513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-17665500956999684372011-08-29T11:45:23.574-07:002011-08-29T11:45:23.574-07:00He looks so pensive. So beautiful!He looks so pensive. So beautiful!Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13763558543171545993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-83937533050996799382011-08-29T08:55:21.329-07:002011-08-29T08:55:21.329-07:00Sending so much love your way to you and that love...Sending so much love your way to you and that lovely baby <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-476566373270451132011-08-29T08:16:33.431-07:002011-08-29T08:16:33.431-07:00I know you'll figure it out. Trust yourself.
...I know you'll figure it out. Trust yourself. <br /><br />I love following your photos on Instagram - I get my daily baby joy there. ;-)Sizzlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182860438430294750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-4779667428011673122011-08-29T06:47:58.988-07:002011-08-29T06:47:58.988-07:00Those early months are really such a haze. Be easy...Those early months are really such a haze. Be easy on yourself. You & Grady are both trying to figure yourselves out, really. But I'm sorry to hear that your birth experience maybe didn't go as you had wanted. That sucks.<br /><br />Your boy is adorable. So sweet.Gaylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10823057451465062771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-58104012006178895772011-08-28T20:21:15.111-07:002011-08-28T20:21:15.111-07:00It WILL Get better, but when? No one knows, even s...It WILL Get better, but when? No one knows, even sometimes I don't feel like myself some days. Most days I'm happy and fun and well-adjusted, but once in a blue moon I have a relapse of it all.<br /><br />It's difficult. It will be. Accept that much. Each and everyday will be a struggle, it will never be easy - as soon as you think "oh, it's so easy today!", tomorrow will bring a whole different battle.<br /><br />All throughout this, your emotions and hormones and bad thoughts and good thoughts, just keep going. Talk to someone. Smile. You will want so much to spend an afternoon alone, and when you get it, you will worry about your boy that whole time. I remember at times I was just "going thru the motions", crying when no one was watching, but somehow I survived. <br /><br />I didn't have any friends that were going through what I was, they were still partying on weekends and not really 'getting' the whole aspect of me, changed. I didn't either, which, although I don't regret, I wish I had someone to tell me that this, too, shall pass.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-80448555154627065852011-08-28T17:23:31.998-07:002011-08-28T17:23:31.998-07:00Love that face. You two made one cute baby.
And I...Love that face. You two made one cute baby.<br /><br />And I (obviously) don't know how you are feeling but I'm sure you'll adjust and be so much more awesome than before. Ya know, if that's even possible.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13506729469735417837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-69361375027663182832011-08-28T17:21:54.704-07:002011-08-28T17:21:54.704-07:00I really hope we'll get at least a brief birth...I really hope we'll get at least a brief birth story someday :) Grady is adorable!Tiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01470163614190777624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-4152679290469278772011-08-28T16:53:04.501-07:002011-08-28T16:53:04.501-07:00Um, I can't even remember what your post actua...Um, I can't even remember what your post actually said even though I just read it because he is SO CUTE I can't stand it!Lemon Gloriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07280085058516960260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-20018940818825213592011-08-28T12:33:20.336-07:002011-08-28T12:33:20.336-07:00Your world just shifted on its axis -- it's no...Your world just shifted on its axis -- it's normal to feel this way. You are no longer just you, or just you and Shawn, you are Mom.<br /><br />You'll adjust. And be an even brighter Hillary than before. I promise. :)<br /><br />xoxoAngellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04084789720358907986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-49795154398359812152011-08-28T11:53:00.881-07:002011-08-28T11:53:00.881-07:00It gets better.
It does.
With my first it took...It gets better. <br /><br />It does. <br /><br />With my first it took about 6 months before I felt sort of like myself again. Albeit an altered version of me. With each baby it's gotten quicker and quicker. <br /><br />As with all things, time is on your side in this one. Feel better. :)Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17525087764266187574noreply@blogger.com