tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post2310716375927932591..comments2023-10-03T09:22:28.312-07:00Comments on two L's please: Thank You Feels Inadequate But It's All I've GotHillaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10602816507915795709noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-66775714491238692692013-05-23T05:11:54.418-07:002013-05-23T05:11:54.418-07:00Dylan Thomas indicated that rage was an appropriat...Dylan Thomas indicated that rage was an appropriate emotion in these times.<br /><br />"Do not go gentle into that good night.<br />Rage, rage against the dying of the light."<br /><br />You are going to kick cancer's ass.-Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15695248992142605013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-88653150864358686612013-05-21T16:36:33.477-07:002013-05-21T16:36:33.477-07:00I know that you have to think about these things. ...I know that you have to think about these things. I would, too. But I am SO ANGRY that you are in a place where these thoughts are. Not angry at you. <br /><br />Even though a 2 year old's memories disappear by the time they are adult, the things that happen to a baby matter. Grady's generosity and enthusiasm are things that he's learned from you. They are things that are a part of him, because you grew them there. You matter to who he is, and who he is will be part of who he becomes. You are in him. <br /><br />And as he grows and changes, you will see yourself in him - some times to your delight, and some times to your frustration! Because one thing I know about you, little sister, is you are effing stubborn. A curse when I wanted to get my own way, but a blessing in stupid situations like this one. taratorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04530526951774721804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-24535072547393226332013-05-21T13:48:04.048-07:002013-05-21T13:48:04.048-07:00Big big hugs. XOBig big hugs. XOAmberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05185652640389232120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-18267893491280636102013-05-21T12:15:18.320-07:002013-05-21T12:15:18.320-07:00I think you're brave for saying it. Very brave...I think you're brave for saying it. Very brave. But that thing? With Grady? That's NOT FUCKING HAPPENING. It's just not. It can't. I love you. taratorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04530526951774721804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-44901183775381976012013-05-21T11:10:25.488-07:002013-05-21T11:10:25.488-07:00You are entirely entitled to your rage and anger. ...You are entirely entitled to your rage and anger. This is shit, and you're reacting to that. Whatever you're feeling, feel it. We'll be here to listen. Gingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17430540263901865519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-58228779203516613312013-05-21T00:45:38.040-07:002013-05-21T00:45:38.040-07:00Motherfluffer is another one we use around here. A...Motherfluffer is another one we use around here. Although the four year old is on a well-placed streak of "fuck."Samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06066499436533594138noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-68958356753231217302013-05-20T10:45:09.339-07:002013-05-20T10:45:09.339-07:00I'm pretty sure your rage is a very healthy pa...I'm pretty sure your rage is a very healthy part of coming to terms with cancer. And if writing about it in this space continues to help process or just feel like someone is listening, then do it. We read and write and call and reach out, because we care. And, as someone else already said, we expect nothing in return.Nilsa @ SoMi Speakshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08474642034399063234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-30850110524957594422013-05-20T10:20:31.655-07:002013-05-20T10:20:31.655-07:00Sending all the love I have, Hills. xoxoSending all the love I have, Hills. xoxoMLEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09301902783411290755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-32172143033378496952013-05-20T09:49:20.191-07:002013-05-20T09:49:20.191-07:00Keep up with the rage and don't forget to sob....Keep up with the rage and don't forget to sob. And the why me? In my experience it's s all part of the dealing with cancer scenario. Nothing is routine. pomomamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08338550638937829078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-70764568295022650422013-05-20T08:55:53.714-07:002013-05-20T08:55:53.714-07:00So much of the environment around us is toxic and ...So much of the environment around us is toxic and has shown up in cancer in much of my family. The birth control pills, hair coloring, the food, our makeup, the plastics we put our food in...creates the toxicity that creates these diseases in us.<br /><br />Have you heard of the Wellness Warrior blog? http://www.thewellnesswarrior.com.au/<br /><br />The way she talks about how she eliminated her cancer is inspirational. Portlandierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14811849548050574875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-25471742140430985742013-05-20T08:22:06.861-07:002013-05-20T08:22:06.861-07:00Be mad, Hills. It's you, fighting.
Nobody ex...Be mad, Hills. It's you, fighting. <br /><br />Nobody expects thank yous. We're here because we love you. xoAngellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04084789720358907986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-66918304905472354442013-05-20T08:17:26.561-07:002013-05-20T08:17:26.561-07:00Angry is good; sounds like it's where you need...Angry is good; sounds like it's where you need to be right now. There isn't much I can say, but I'm listening; vent as much as you need and don't worry about the rest of the world for a little while. Just worry about what you need.wendrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06997119641497745602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2076532818291719012.post-59066124393112732022013-05-20T04:51:06.107-07:002013-05-20T04:51:06.107-07:00Be mad. Be furious. And we'll be here to liste...Be mad. Be furious. And we'll be here to listen. No thank yous or replies necessary. Dianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09909230851195128319noreply@blogger.com